What if I had no relationships at all? What if I just had a circle of close “friends with benefits” who I'd have intimate contact with?
Some of them I'd like to “just” cuddle and touch a lot
Some of them I'd like to have sex with
Some of them I'd like to be tied up and spanked by
Very few of them I even might want to tie up and spank myself
Do we really need to slap labels on all that?
Do we really need to draw some arbitrary line between friendship and love?
Because often I have no idea where to draw it…
At the end of the day I just want to love and be loved. That's hard enough, what's the point of imposing any further limits?
@lis this is a fine question I think we shouldn't =3
@lis :blobheartcat: nya~
@lis :blobheartcat: ?
@lis this my entire life
@lis I wish I could keep saying multiple people I love them, but often it's hard to explain that it's in different ways and with different boundaries. People just assume what it means, people want to label that, people around make other assumptions, and in the end, for now I've inflicted enough harm trying to explain myself up to date...
But I'd love this to work better and be accepted as normal.
@lis Some you can just have group sex with, some will gangbang you
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